2016年5月11日 星期三

Keep a Journal 寫日記與目標設定(美國哈佛大學開放式課程)全套Tal Ben-Shahar

English Speaking @ Tainan

  • journal : a written record that you make of the things that happen to you each day [LDOCE]
  • journal : a book in which you write down your personal experiences and thoughts [Merriam-Webster]
  • journal : a written record of what you have done each day; a diary 日誌;日記 [劍橋線上詞典]







What are you doing differently?





《幸福課》全 / Tal Ben-Shahar
幸福課第1堂:何謂積極心理學?(美國哈佛大學開放式課程)
幸福課第12堂:寫日記與目標設定(美國哈佛大學開放式課程)




更快樂:哈佛最受歡迎的一堂課(修訂版) 
Happier:Learn the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment 
作者:Tal Ben-Shahar
譯者:譚家瑜




  • 不再追求完美的勇氣
    完美主義往往是因為恐懼,害怕失敗被人瞧不起,而去努力,不是來自於覺得有趣好玩而很想去做。倘若我的任務是被興高彩烈的熱情所推動,動力是來自於「想要」體驗的事物而非想要「避免」不想要的事物,那麼不管事情的結果是如何,我們的感受與心情是絕對不同的追求完美也會使我們不願意嘗試新事物,因為害怕失敗,害怕輸給別人,所以會用各種理由來逃避挑戰。這種個性很難對人生感到滿意,因為他們為了肯定自己的價值,會不斷跟人比較。只要我們習於跟別人比較,陷入與人競爭的思考模式,人生就此走入痛苦的不歸路。 我們要能體會到,職業不同,職位層級不同,不代表人的地位或價值的高低,我們不但不要跟別人比較更不該與人競爭,而是將所有人視為與自己同等價值的存在,大家互助與努力,共同造福社會與人類,這種奉獻的心情會讓我們活得興高采烈。

  • 勇敢追尋最想做的事--《這輩子,我最想做的事》推薦序
    筆觸溫暖而撫慰人心,是給在工作生涯裡不停跌跌撞撞的你,最佳的一帖心靈良藥。它探討的是天職的追尋──天職不只是一份工作,同時也是為你的人生帶來意義的一系列活動。它探討了工作的靈性與靈魂,同時提供你一些方法,幫助你找到自己的天職,並開始做你這一生注定要做的事。


  • 堅持夢想,可能錯過更多有意義的事
    我們通常沒有需要去百分百的規劃每一件事情,有個真正跟我們的興趣一致的大方向然後往此努力,或許甚至會帶給我們更寬廣的視野、更多選擇,甚至是更棒的選擇,讓我們可以有更多機會,去欣賞人生道路上不同的風景。

Your Character Strengths Profile

Love of learning

Mastering new skills, topics, and bodies of knowledge, whether on one's own or formally; related to the strength of curiosity but goes beyond it to describe the tendency to add systematically to what one knows.

Appreciation of Beauty & Excellence

Noticing and appreciating beauty, excellence, and/or skilled performance in various domains of life, from nature to art to mathematics to science to everyday experience.

Judgment

Thinking things through and examining them from all sides; not jumping to conclusions; being able to change one's mind in light of evidence; weighing all evidence fairly.

Honesty

Speaking the truth but more broadly presenting oneself in a genuine way and acting in a sincere way; being without pretense; taking responsibility for one's feelings and actions.

Prudence

Being careful about one's choices; not taking undue risks; not saying or doing things that might later be regretted.

Curiosity

Taking an interest in ongoing experience for its own sake; finding subjects and topics fascinating; exploring and discovering.

Zest

Approaching life with excitement and energy; not doing things halfway or halfheartedly; living life as an adventure; feeling alive and activated.

Self-Regulation

Regulating what one feels and does; being disciplined; controlling one's appetites and emotions.

Humility

Letting one's accomplishments speak for themselves; not regarding oneself as more special than one is.

10 Spirituality

Having coherent beliefs about the higher purpose and meaning of the universe; knowing where one fits within the larger scheme; having beliefs about the meaning of life that shape conduct and provide comfort.

11 Gratitude

Being aware of and thankful for the good things that happen; taking time to express thanks.

12 Perseverance

Finishing what one starts; persevering in a course of action in spite of obstacles; “getting it out the door”; taking pleasure in completing tasks.

13 Humor

Liking to laugh and tease; bringing smiles to other people; seeing the light side; making (not necessarily telling) jokes.

14 Creativity

Thinking of novel and productive ways to conceptualize and do things; includes artistic achievement but is not limited to it.

15 Fairness

Treating all people the same according to notions of fairness and justice; not letting feelings bias decisions about others; giving everyone a fair chance.

16 Kindness

Doing favors and good deeds for others; helping them; taking care of them.

17 Perspective

Being able to provide wise counsel to others; having ways of looking at the world that make sense to oneself/others.

18 Teamwork

Working well as a member of a group or team; being loyal to the group; doing one's share.

19 Hope

Expecting the best in the future and working to achieve it; believing that a good future is something that can be brought about.

20 Love

Valuing close relations with others, in particular those in which sharing & caring are reciprocated; being close to people.

21 Bravery

Not shrinking from threat, challenge, difficulty, or pain; speaking up for what’s right even if there’s opposition; acting on convictions even if unpopular; includes physical bravery but is not limited to it.

22 Forgiveness

Forgiving those who have done wrong; accepting others’ shortcomings; giving people a second chance; not being vengeful.

23 Leadership

Encouraging a group of which one is a member to get things done and at the same time maintain good relations within the group; organizing group activities and seeing that they happen.

24 Social intelligence

Being aware of the motives/feelings of others and oneself; knowing what to do to fit into different social situations; knowing what makes other people tick.